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Perch.

Matchmaking Restored to an Art Form

The Idea

Perch is built as a refuge from the exhausting world of endless swiping, replacing it with real curation for people seeking real connection.

The Case for Change

Dating apps have never been larger. For the people using them, they have rarely felt worse.

These figures are not ours. They belong to the researchers, clinicians and public health bodies who have spent the last few years measuring what a decade of infinite swiping has actually done.

  1. I / IV

    43.3%

    of adults aged 18 to 34 report feelings of loneliness, the highest rate of any age group measured.

    Source: CDC, MMWR

  2. II / IV

    54%

    of women who use dating apps say they have felt overwhelmed by the number of messages they received. Around a quarter of men say the same.

    Source: Pew Research Center

  3. III / IV

    90%

    of women, and 88% of men, say they often or sometimes felt disappointed by the people they encountered through apps.

    Source: Mentor Research Institute

  4. IV / IV

    80%

    of long-term dating app users report having experienced emotional burnout or fatigue from the apps themselves.

    Source: FHE Health

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Chosen, not shuffled

How Curation Works

Fewer introductions, better reasons, and a model that learns from both.

  1. Understand

    Before Perch puts anyone forward, it builds a considered picture of who you are, what draws you in, and what you are genuinely looking for.

  2. Curate

    That picture drives the matching model, so the people you meet are well suited from the first day. They are selected deliberately rather than dealt out at random.

  3. Refine

    After each introduction you tell Perch what worked and what did not. The model takes that feedback, learns from it, and sharpens everything it sends you next.

How it works

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Fewer introductions. Better reasons for each one.
The Perch principle

The Name

Why a perch?

A perch is not a destination. It is the place a bird chooses to stop: high enough to see clearly, still enough to think, and close enough to decide where to go next.

That is the posture we want dating to have again. A vantage point rather than a treadmill, with a small number of people worth your attention and the time to work out whether they are right for you.

Every decision we make is measured against that idea.

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Find your perch.

Perch. for iPhone and Android. Built for anyone who has had enough of scrolling and would like to be introduced instead.

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